Five suggestions, for spiritual and life development, accompanied by some thoughts and questions:
DISCOVER the WHO
The success of our lives is greatly impacted by WHO we are trying to most effectively serve? WHO do you desire most to impress? WHO do you spend the majority of your time attempting to please? If no obstacles stood in the way, WHO would you become?
DISTINGUISH the WHY
WHY do you do the things you do? Is it to make other people happy? Are you desperately trying to find acceptance? What is the true ambition behind your endeavors? WHY do you do what you do?
DEVELOP the HOW
HOW we do things will greatly determine whether or not they are effective. It is imperatively important that we develop our HOW. If you sing, develop your style and gift. If you serve in a volunteer ministry, offer your time in the most excellent way possible. May everything that we do, be done as unto the Lord.
DETERMINE the WHEN
Some of the worst mistakes in my life have been WHEN I missed God's timing. Right place, right people, right plan.... But wrong time. It is not enough to simply have a: WHO, WHY, and HOW. We must know the times and seasons of God, so that we may walk in HIS order for our lives.
DELIVER the WHAT
James perhaps said it best, "Be ye not only hearers of the Word, but be ye doers also..." At some point we do have to deliver the goods. It is great to insure excellence before we bring our seedling out of the greenhouse. We should even attempt to polish our approaches, but sooner or later (specifically, once God has revealed HIS timing for your life) we must pull the combines out of the barns and go reap the Harvest...